If you don’t have much sex experience, don’t be choosy at first, go for the ugly women too. Have a lot of sex. After you’ve had enough experience, you can then pick and choose and go for only the pretty women.
But…here’s the exception. If she’s unattractive and she has a Premium (paid) profile then don’t waste much time on her.
Why do I say that?
Look, India has millions of sexually frustrated men online who send hundreds of interests to all women on all matrimonial sites and social media, even to the ugliest women. In fact, ugly women get more interests than pretty women because the male logic goes like this: “She’s ugly, so she probably gets few interests from men, so she must be lonely, so I have a better chance with her.”
And so the ugly women end up getting more interests than pretty women 🙂
Now with so many free interests coming into her mailbox every day, why would an ugly woman register for a paid profile. Why would she spend money to meet men when she’s already getting men for free ?!
There are only 2 possible reasons and one is more likely than the other.
Reason 1 (99.9% possibility)
She’s fed up of men using her only for sex (she’s been there, done that) but not wanting to marry her. So now she’s decided enough is enough. This is what she’s thinking.
“All the men who have written to me so far have only been interested in sleeping with me. They’ve only been interested in the milk, not the cow. Maybe there are other kind of men out there who are different, who will take the whole cow, but I cannot reach out to them without a paid profile. So let me ‘invest’ in a paid profile and connect with those men.”
After getting a paid subscription she’s in a hurry to get her ROI (returns on investment) and get that rare man who will take the whole cow and not just the milk.
When she sends you an interest, she’s on a mission. She chose your profile because something in it made her feel you will take the whole cow (not just the milk). When she talks or chats with you, she is constantly monitoring your words to see if you are ready to take the whole cow. She has no time to waste. She’s not interested in just flirting or casual chatting or romantic chats. She’s already done that with her free profile, and slept with guys and she knows that once men get the milk, they are gone, without taking the cow. She does not want to repeat it with her paid subscription because time is running out, her subscription will soon expire.
Here’s how you might waste your time with such women.
- You may think her eagerness to talk to you is because she’s easy and you can get your milk faster. Wrong. She’s eager to talk because she’s on a mission, she wants to find out if you are cow buyer or not and wants to spend more time finding out.
- You may mistake her eagerness to meet you as a sign that she’s attracted and wants to sleep with you, but actually she wants to meet you to speed up things towards the cow buying ceremony (aka ‘marriage’).
There’s a second reason why an ugly woman would take a paid subscription despite hundreds of men responding to her free profile. But this reason is less likely.
Reason 2 (0.01% possibility)
She’s fed up of sleeping with the loser type men who write to her free profile. With them all she gets is cheap dates at cheap restaurants and travelling in autorickshaws to cheap hotel rooms to get laid. And as soon as the men get the milk, they dump her.
Here’s what she’s thinking.
“Hey, if this is only about sex, I might as well have sex with better quality men who have money to spend and who will take me to nice coffee shops and decent hotel rooms (or their homes) while travelling in their car or at least an Ola cab. But how do I get these men if they’re not sending me interests? Looks like the only way is to invest in a paid profile.”
So when you see an ugly girl with a paid profile how can you tell if it’s Reason # 1 or # 2.
Well, start flirting with her right away. If it’s reason # 1 she will reject you and move on. Saves time for you and her. If it’s reason # 2 she will start flirting with you too and you can then take it further.