Forget marriage, kids, inlaws.
Instead, travel, get fit, get a style makeover, learn to play a musical instrument, build a business, make the world a better place. If the business fails, no problem, learn the lessons and build another, enjoy the process, there’s no pressure of inlaws breathing down your neck because your success defines their success and the success of their daughter 
It’s a good idea to get a lover. Because sex is awesome. And at a holistic level, the masculine energy thrives best with feminine energy. Shiva needs a Parvati.
Marriage is a social construct, invented by humans, it does not exist in nature. Birds and animals don’t get married, the females mate with the most s*xually attractive males. When you interact with a woman, don’t focus on getting married to her, focus first on developing a s*xual relationship. Because here’s a secret that few men know: when you first develop a s*xual relationship with a woman, the power is in your hands (not hers) you can then choose to marry her (if she proves to be wife material) or retain her as a lover and travel companion.