Sometimes you meet women who are not in a good place. They could be battling depression, loneliness, low self-esteem, poverty, sickness, even homelessness. They may have registered on the shaadi website as a desperate move to improve their situation. One of my students recently told me about a woman he met on the shaadi website. Her husband had an affair and left her to marry the other woman, and also took custody of their little kids, leaving her quite sad and lonely.
At such times, forget about the milk, try to help her instead. Give her words of encouragement, give her tips to improve her situation, guide her to a better place, help her in whatever way you can. Then LEAVE. Break all contact and move on. You don’t want to stay with negativity, or it will affect you. You don’t want to take advantage of her, or Karma will f**k your happiness and you would deserve it.
Leave her better than you found her.
Beware of female frauds: There are women fraudsters registered on shaadi websites, some are even Premium members. They prey on men and try to extract money using emotional blackmail. Absolutely do not send any money to women on shaadi websites, no matter how genuine they sound. Any financial transactions with them can legally affect you later. Difficult to explain details her, but if she can prove that you paid her money, she can legally blackmail you for the rest of your life. As soon as you get the feeling that she is a fraud, or she asks you for money, move on, just RUN!