The very first words you send her on whatsapp set the tone for the rest of your interaction (and yes, always start on whatsapp, don’t call her directly until you spend at least 5 conversations on whatsapp)
Most guys start their interaction with something boring like,
“Good morning, Vijay Tandon this side, is this Sonali? I sent you an interest on Shaadi and you have accepted. Thanks for accepting. Blah blah blah…”
Boring stuff.
You come across as a boring man.
And she immediately puts you in the category of “Boring” along with 125 other men who are already there, and there is a good chance she is no longer interested in you, and is now waiting for an excuse to end the interaction asap and save your number as “Boring guy from shaadi # 126” so that the next time you call she will not pick it up, even by mistake.
So what’s the attractive way to start an interaction?
Say something unexpected, something unusual, something she did not predict.
Here are some examples:
- You: “Hey Sonali, I love your banjaran look on your profile, so are you always dressed like that?”
She: “What? Who is this?”
Me: “This is Vijay from Shaadi.com, you just accepted my interest, oh my God you forgot already?” - You: “Your pics make you look a little khadoos. Thoda smile karti toh thodi kum khadoos lagti”
She: “What? Who is this?”
Me: “This is Vijay from Shaadi.com, you just accepted my interest 🙂 “